A Mexican Wedding and Baptism

Buenos dias! Let's see. The week went pretty quick after I wrote the last e-mail. We had plenty of time to do some door knocking and found some good people, but are going to have to work hard still to get back in the door and teach entire families.
One week we were walking down the street and this guy, Juan Carlos, in his car stopped us (this has happened a few times before). He used to live in Logan, with a brother, so knows a little about our church. He gave us his info and we said we'd call to set up an appointment. So finally last week we saw him on Friday and brought this girl who's a recently returned missionary in our ward (in Spanish they call them “ex-missioneros” I don't really like that. Why “ex?”). We taught him and his nephew and it went really really good. It's funny because there were four of us teaching, but I really like having this RM with us because we flow really well together. The nephew has grandparents who are members in our stake. I don't know them. But it's just another connection. They say that statistically it takes something like 7 contacts with the church before someone accepts and is baptized. Hopefully this is the seventh time.
After our appointment with him we went to this little taco/pupusa place for dinner, and in walks Juan Carlos to get some pupusas. Funny. He wasn't able to come to church, but I he truly seems interested, or at least has the desire to understand.
The best part of the week though was Alma and Paulo. We taught them and they had their baptismal interview Thursday night. Alma told me that her mother, Maria, isn't too happy with her deciding to get married. That she wasn't really talking to her. Luckily she did come to the wedding, though she didn't come to church or the baptisms the next day. Too bad. I believe she knows the church is true, and knows she needs to be baptized as well, but as a mother, she doesn't want to see her daughter be hurt again (because Alma's already been married and divorced) and so now she's upset and we think that's why she didn't want to get baptized too. Because in the past she said that when Alma could get baptized, that she would do it too. So now we still will be working with Maria, trying to help her.
But, the wedding and baptism were wonderful. It was so great Saturday when they got married. Alma almost never wears dresses to church, but was all dressed up; she's teeeeeeny, so she looked like a dolled-up 13 year old. And Paulo had bought a new tie and white shirt (still had the fold lines in it). It was just a little marriage. Hermano Montiel and his wife were there, bishop and his family, Hermana Acosta (teaches gospel principles and husband is stake pres) was there and another counselor and his wife. They just looked so happy. Of course!
And, we had been able to get in contact really fast with one of the missionaries who taught them when they first moved her last year, and he flew out the next day to be there and baptize them. So it was really special for them. And the baptism was even more amazing. Everyone was just sooo excited for them. They've been waiting so long to do this and you could just see them radiating happiness all day Sunday. I was able to blow up a nice picture of the temple that I have with a frame it for them to have in their house because this is definitely one family that will be going to the temple in a year. I don't doubt it.
And what else? We had some really good fish this weekend. Fish tacos!
Yesterday we had our mission conference. It was good. Elder Packer and his wife were mission presidents in Malaga, Spain a couple of years ago.
There were things in there that I learned that I can improve on. Right now I just really want to improve my teaching abilities. Become that master teacher! And I always love hearing from President and Sister Watrous speak too. They are just such good people.
Tomorrow I'm going on exchanges in the Samoan program. Yeah! So Sister Brown will be coming here to Spanish for the day. It should be interesting to have these three sisters here doing the Spanish on their own. But I think it will be a really good learning experience for them. And I'm excited to speak my native tongue of Samoan, and eat some “pig.”
We don't have any baptisms coming up...yet. But somehow, I know we can have at least one more baptism by the end of the transfer. We're trying!
Oh yeah, earthquakes. We had one a couple of weeks ago. We were teaching Alma and Paulo and all of a sudden I notice their faces were all funny, and then I realized that there was an earthquake. Just a little one. Sister Lewis and Sister Yeom were somehow oblivious to that one. Then Sunday night when we got home we had another earthquake. Like a 5.7 or something. It's too bad how those things excite me. It didn't last too long, but kind of was jerky in the way it moved. It scared my companions. I already know where I would go in our apartment to hide if there was a big one. Sister Dutson figured it all out one time. We have to think about these things, right? I'm pretty sure our apartment will just fall over if anything happens. Ha ha ha.
Love you all, thank you for everything!

Preparation Day

This is what Preparation Day "looks" like:



We are only going to the temple every other transfer now, and when we are scheduled to go, we have p-day. So that is today. We were afraid that we wouldn't make it an extra couple of days without a p-day, but I hardly even missed it. P-days actually end up wearing me out because we're running everywhere trying to get stuff done. And teaching lessons to people is really what energizes you as a missionary.
Anyway, it was fantastic to go to the temple! It's a perfect day today…not too hot, so it was a great day to take pictures.
Last week when we were out knocking, we meet a Korean woman. She was really nice and we taught her; Sister Yeom talked to her in Korean. I listened and tried to invoke the gift of the interpretation of tongues. Didn't work. But the woman also spoke English. It's really fun to teach a variety of people when we can. But in our mission, since we're in the Spanish ward, if we find someone English speaking, we pass them on to the missionaries who are in the English ward they would go to. Sad.
We did a lot of knocking last week; we knocked one complex that had hallways that just looked like a creepy old 70's motel. A lot of people made appointments with us for later but of course they weren't there. Oh well.
We had interviews with the president last week too. That was good. Usually mine last about 2 minutes. He doesn't usually have much to say and I don't really have questions. But this time I asked him about what he thought of our area, and what he was thinking about me staying here. He said he hadn't thought about it too much, but that he was told by Elder Clayton (the area authority here) that wards that have 2 companionships are less successful than those with 1. And we have 3. Sooo, I don't know; I think it's possible that the sisters might get pulled out of here. Who knows. Maybe I can just spend my mission here.
We are teaching some really funny “inactives.” I really love visiting and teaching inactive families and people. One family is just so awkward: the Flores. But they're great. They give us 2% milk when we visit, and when the kids read in Spanish, their dad corrects them on their words the entire time. It's funny how even though these kids who speak both languages (but English for school), have the natural Spanish accents that I would just looove to have; but I can read in Spanish a whole lot better than them. We watched “Legacy” in Spanish with them. Pretty funny. We also visit Hermana Olea, another inactive. Her personality is very American. She has been a nanny for a member family for like 17 years and knows English; through them is how she ended up getting baptized. She makes us dinner on Saturdays. She cooks reeeally good. She tells us how she doesn't like Relief Society, so she won't go to that part of church unless certain a woman is teaching because it just bores her. And she could never be in YWs because she'd “kill them.” She makes us laugh.
Well, we've been trying to commit everyone to be baptized, asking everyone: the new people, the old people, everyone. So we taught Hermana Mendez (remember her?) with her husband for a little FHE on Monday. I like to teach the Restoration with candles. Big one in the middle represents Christ-and we use lots of light scriptures (being power/authority/priesthood) and 12 little tea lights around the candle-being apostles. It's a cool lesson I must say. But it did not work in getting Hermano to accept a baptismal date. He's just very intellectual, and he's read all the scriptures, and pretty much knows it's true. Apparently he's just taking his time. He always says “one of these days, I'm just going to surprise you.” I told him if he wants to surprise me, he might only have 3 weeks to do it (in case I'm transferred). Hermana is going through the temple in June, so it would be great if a year later, they could be going through to be sealed too. We'll see. Monday was a pretty good day I must say though. Tuesday was even better. I played the piano at a funeral! My first Hispanic funeral. It wasn't much different than a “normal” funeral. Someone's mother in another ward passed away so they called me to play. This was our service for the week.
Then we went and visited Araceli. She came to church on Sunday (after like 7 or 8 weeks of random excuses of not being able to come) and her husband came too! Mostly because they were just planning on leaving right after church anyway, and she asked him to do it for Mother's day. We had planned on kind of dropping Araceli yesterday, giving her some time. It's hard to drop people though. I didn't really know how to say it. I think she understood though what we were trying to do, and she was confused. Well, we didn't drop her. Maybe we're not supposed to yet. I don't know what to do with her!
Then later that night, after getting some frozen yogurt (it's amazing here!) we went home and our bishop had been trying to get hold of us. When I called him he said “Hermana, I have some good news for you. Alma and Paulo are getting married Saturday and baptized Sunday.” Yeah! Yeah yeah yeah! They have been taught for over a year, and have wanted to get baptized, but she was just never ready to be married. We've had so many talks with her. They’ve even met our president and his wife; they talked about temples and marriage. I didn't think she wanted to marry him at all. But they live together and have a little girl. It's the miracle of having a ward getting involved. Our bishop has taken them on as his challenge, and he's met with them both several times, and apparently it's helped because we're having a wedding this weekend! So that was a fantastic end to the night! We're also hoping that our El Salvadorenans are getting married and baptized this weekend too, but I don't know if they're ready yet.
So that's that! It's a good week so far! Next Monday we're having a mission conference with Elder Packer (the son, not father), so I won't be writing again until Tuesday.
I love you all mucho mucho and thanks for supporting me and talking to me and loving me!

Love,
Emily